I always wanted to know what my H was doing and learning. A lady showed me this link and I followed it all the time.
H did say that there was a lot more "down" time than he thought there would be. He said it could still easily be a 6 week course and they could still learn everything they do now. I've heard rumors that they are thinking of making it 6.5 weeks again instead of 8.5.
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Showing posts with label BMT. Show all posts
What goes on in the different weeks of BMT
11 August 2009
07 August 2009
Events
This schedule is taken from airforce.com.
Things can and do change the graduation weekend schedule. My H was released at 0600 on Sunday morning instead of 0900. There is also a coin ceremony after the Airman's run on Thursday. I also highly recommend going to one of the visitor briefings, especially the one after the Airman's Run. I know a couple wives who missed seeing their husband run because they went to the first briefing and didn't hear the announcement that the run got moved up.
Hotel
We got a room on base, mostly because H's dad is retired and pulled a few strings. For us it worked amazing. After the Airman's run on Thursday he was able to come back to the room as well as the other days he wasn't allowed off base. I remember Sunday they aren't allowed off base and they got released at 0600 so it was definitely nice to go pick him up at that time, come back and sleep for a few hours before church. Some people say they want to be off base because their Airmen want to be as far away from the base as possible. At least we never had to worry about getting him back late.
Here is a link to billeting (on base lodging) on Lackland AFB
Here is a link to a list of hotels near Lackland AFB. Carefree Inn is RIGHT outside the gate, but personally it looked like a complete dump, at least from the outside.
Rental Car
I would highly recommend a rental car. They had the bus that took you to down town San Antonio, but it's packed. It's nice to be able to go where you want when you want. Remember Lackland is a big base as well.
Here is the link to Enterprise on Lackland AFB
Here is a link to a list of rental cars in San Antonio.
Arrival
We arrived in San Antonio Wednesday night, which was perfect. His mom and I didn't sleep at all that night. It was so exciting to know that we were now in the same city, and I was going to be seeing him the next day! Some people don't come until Thursday, but I would hate to have missed the Airman's Run and extra time with him. Also, if you can't get a late flight on Sunday I would definitely say to leave Monday morning. We were lucky and got a flight that left at 10 and H had to be in the dorms by 6 so it gave us plenty of time.
Here is a link to the SAT Airport.
If it's just you (the spouse) going, make sure when you book your plane ticket to call the airline directly. You can normally get a better rate talking to the person and a lot of them offer Military Discounts even to spouses. Remember when you are at the airport, you can stay in the USO before your flight. They are little lounge areas for Military members and families usually with free wifi, couches, snacks and sodas. They are normally before you go through security, if you don't know where it is in your airport don't be afraid to ask someone.
Make sure you have money on you
They sell all different kinds of souvenirs at the gift shop. Some of it is really neat and Lackland is pretty much the only base where you can get "my brother is an US Airman" shirts. They also will have an opportunity to order pictures and DVD's of BMT. Don't worry if you don't want to get it there you can order them online. Double check with your H/BF/FI before you order though, like my H already ordered everything so we didn't have to worry about it.
Do's
WEAR COMFORTABLE CLOTHES AND SHOES!! You do tons of walking and standing around so heals may be cute, but you will be in a lot of pain!
Don't forget your camera! Just make sure where you are taking pictures are in the common areas.
Depends what time your going, but bring clothes for all different kinds of weather. It rains all the time down there.
It's okay to wear jeans to the graduation, it is outside and if you are going in the summer it is HOT! You will see a lot of younger wives/GF/FI dressed like they're ready to make some money.
Abide by the PDA rule. Your Airman will get in trouble and could possible get recycled or not be able to see you the rest of the weekend. Remember there are MTI's all around downtown and at the events so even when you're off base you still need to follow the rules.
Remember that everything you do on base reflects on your Airman. If you get a ticket, they will get in trouble for it.
Don'ts
Speed, run red lights or stop signs. Right turn on red is permitted as long as you make a complete stop.
Talk on your cell phone while driving. This includes texting.
Bring him back to the base late. He will get in trouble and you won't be able to see your Airman the next day.
Don't smoke on base! Unless it is a designated area.
Park in the parking lots next to the dorms.
When you're allowed to visit his/her dorm do NOT walk down the center aisle, throw garbage in the trash can and drink out of the water fountain.
Things to do on base and in the area
Southeast Asia Airpark
Global Airpark Museum
Securit y Forces Museum
History and Tradit ion Museum
Air Force Enlisted Art Gallery in the Recept ion Center
Arnold Hall Communit y Center
Skylark Communit y Center
Skylark Bowling Alley
Gateway Theater
Golf Course
Family Camping
Officer/Enlisted Club (colocated)
On Saturdays, city bus service is available from the Reception Center to the United
Services Organizat ion (USO), one block from the Riverwalk in downtown San Antonio.
Roundtrip service starts at 9:20 a.m. and runs in 20minute intervals. The last bus leaves
the USO at 6:40 pm. Fare is $2.00 per person, each way, exact change only. Children ride
at a reduced or free fare.
Extra's
When I went to H's graduation they offered sporting events off base Friday and Saturday night. If the Trainee signed up for them they were allowed to go and be off base later than the curfew. Of course they had to be back RIGHT after the games were over. Friday night was basketball and Saturday night was baseball. It was nice being able to spend a little more time with him.
Bring a suitcase of civilian clothes for your Airman. I got H a laptop for his Graduation gift. I planned on just putting it in his suitcase for him to find, but I couldn't wait and it was nice for him to be able to use it that weekend. I also made a scrapbook and wrote little notes and hid them in his suitcase for him to find. He loved the scrapbook. He actually said some of the other Airmen were jealous that their wives/girlfriends didn't do anything like that. He still has it with him at his dorm now in Tech School.
Take TONS of pictures! We were so caught up in the moment and we didn't get any pictures of us or him and his parents at graduation. To look back on it I really wish we would have.
Don't over plan anything, but also have things in mind. If you plan on going to six flags make sure you visit ITT (Information, Tickets & Travel) on Thursday or Friday because they are closed on Saturday. The Riverwalk in down town San Antonio is extremely nice. I loved it down there, but be careful there are people in the AF all over down there watching out for graduating Airmen breaking rules.
Sea World has a deal for AD (Active Duty) Military and up to 3 dependents (have to be a spouse or child) to get in for free, it's called Hero Salute. A lot of graduating Airmen go there. It has a few roller coasters and water rides. It was nice for H to be able to do something fun. If you visit that website you can register there, but I would wait until you go down for graduation. Your Airman can just go up to the ticket for Military and they will have you fill out a form and see his ID as well as the dependents that are getting in. You can only use Hero Salute one time per year.
There is absolutely NO drinking graduation weekend. They WILL be recycled if they get caught.
If your Airman's parents are going as well be sure to kindly let them know that you would like some alone time with your H/BF/FI before you get down there. Luckily H's parents thought about it before we did and gave us a couple hours together Friday afternoon at Sea World and then got us/me a room to myself on Saturday night (we stayed on base). So H came to the room for a couple hours Saturday afternoon and then they got released extra early for base liberty Sunday so he was able to come back to the room and sleep a few hours with me until Church.
Make sure your Airman has their flashlight every night! If they get caught walking without one back to the dorms they will be in BIG trouble.
A few pictures from BMT and Graduation:
| THURSDAY | |
| Four visitor briefings (8:30am, 11:00 am, 12:30 pm or 2:00 pm) | |
| 8:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. | Family sign-in at the BMT Reception |
| 10:00 a.m. | Two-mile Airman’s Run |
| 4:45 p.m. | Honor Grad Recognition Ceremony |
| 5:00 - 7:30 p.m. | Dinner Buffet at Mitchell Hall |
| 8:00 p.m. | Airmen are due back inside their dorms |
| FRIDAY | |
| 7:15 a.m. | Events Briefing at BMT Reception Center |
| 7:45 a.m. | Buses depart from BMT Center to the Parade Grounds |
| 9:00 a.m. | Graduation Parade begins |
| 10:00 a.m. | Buses depart to the Reception Center |
| 10:00 a.m.-11:00 a.m. | Squadron Open House |
| 11:00 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. | Lunch at Mitchell Hall |
| 5:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. | Dinner Buffet at Mitchell Hall |
| 8:00 p.m. | Airmen are due back inside their dorms |
| SATURDAY | |
| 9:00 a.m. | Airmen are released from their squadrons for Town Pass |
| 8:00 p.m. | Airmen are due back inside their dorms |
| SUNDAY | |
| 6:30 a.m. | Church services begin |
| 9:00 a.m. | Airmen are released from their squadrons for Base Liberty |
| 9:00 a.m. | Sunday Brunch at the Gateway Club |
| 6:00 p.m. | Airmen are due back inside their dorms |
Things can and do change the graduation weekend schedule. My H was released at 0600 on Sunday morning instead of 0900. There is also a coin ceremony after the Airman's run on Thursday. I also highly recommend going to one of the visitor briefings, especially the one after the Airman's Run. I know a couple wives who missed seeing their husband run because they went to the first briefing and didn't hear the announcement that the run got moved up.
Hotel
We got a room on base, mostly because H's dad is retired and pulled a few strings. For us it worked amazing. After the Airman's run on Thursday he was able to come back to the room as well as the other days he wasn't allowed off base. I remember Sunday they aren't allowed off base and they got released at 0600 so it was definitely nice to go pick him up at that time, come back and sleep for a few hours before church. Some people say they want to be off base because their Airmen want to be as far away from the base as possible. At least we never had to worry about getting him back late.
Here is a link to billeting (on base lodging) on Lackland AFB
Here is a link to a list of hotels near Lackland AFB. Carefree Inn is RIGHT outside the gate, but personally it looked like a complete dump, at least from the outside.
Rental Car
I would highly recommend a rental car. They had the bus that took you to down town San Antonio, but it's packed. It's nice to be able to go where you want when you want. Remember Lackland is a big base as well.
Here is the link to Enterprise on Lackland AFB
Here is a link to a list of rental cars in San Antonio.
Arrival
We arrived in San Antonio Wednesday night, which was perfect. His mom and I didn't sleep at all that night. It was so exciting to know that we were now in the same city, and I was going to be seeing him the next day! Some people don't come until Thursday, but I would hate to have missed the Airman's Run and extra time with him. Also, if you can't get a late flight on Sunday I would definitely say to leave Monday morning. We were lucky and got a flight that left at 10 and H had to be in the dorms by 6 so it gave us plenty of time.
Here is a link to the SAT Airport.
If it's just you (the spouse) going, make sure when you book your plane ticket to call the airline directly. You can normally get a better rate talking to the person and a lot of them offer Military Discounts even to spouses. Remember when you are at the airport, you can stay in the USO before your flight. They are little lounge areas for Military members and families usually with free wifi, couches, snacks and sodas. They are normally before you go through security, if you don't know where it is in your airport don't be afraid to ask someone.
Make sure you have money on you
They sell all different kinds of souvenirs at the gift shop. Some of it is really neat and Lackland is pretty much the only base where you can get "my brother is an US Airman" shirts. They also will have an opportunity to order pictures and DVD's of BMT. Don't worry if you don't want to get it there you can order them online. Double check with your H/BF/FI before you order though, like my H already ordered everything so we didn't have to worry about it.
Do's
WEAR COMFORTABLE CLOTHES AND SHOES!! You do tons of walking and standing around so heals may be cute, but you will be in a lot of pain!
Don't forget your camera! Just make sure where you are taking pictures are in the common areas.
Depends what time your going, but bring clothes for all different kinds of weather. It rains all the time down there.
It's okay to wear jeans to the graduation, it is outside and if you are going in the summer it is HOT! You will see a lot of younger wives/GF/FI dressed like they're ready to make some money.
Abide by the PDA rule. Your Airman will get in trouble and could possible get recycled or not be able to see you the rest of the weekend. Remember there are MTI's all around downtown and at the events so even when you're off base you still need to follow the rules.
Remember that everything you do on base reflects on your Airman. If you get a ticket, they will get in trouble for it.
Don'ts
Speed, run red lights or stop signs. Right turn on red is permitted as long as you make a complete stop.
Talk on your cell phone while driving. This includes texting.
Bring him back to the base late. He will get in trouble and you won't be able to see your Airman the next day.
Don't smoke on base! Unless it is a designated area.
Park in the parking lots next to the dorms.
When you're allowed to visit his/her dorm do NOT walk down the center aisle, throw garbage in the trash can and drink out of the water fountain.
Things to do on base and in the area
Southeast Asia Airpark
Global Airpark Museum
Securit y Forces Museum
History and Tradit ion Museum
Air Force Enlisted Art Gallery in the Recept ion Center
Arnold Hall Communit y Center
Skylark Communit y Center
Skylark Bowling Alley
Gateway Theater
Golf Course
Family Camping
Officer/Enlisted Club (colocated)
On Saturdays, city bus service is available from the Reception Center to the United
Services Organizat ion (USO), one block from the Riverwalk in downtown San Antonio.
Roundtrip service starts at 9:20 a.m. and runs in 20minute intervals. The last bus leaves
the USO at 6:40 pm. Fare is $2.00 per person, each way, exact change only. Children ride
at a reduced or free fare.
Extra's
When I went to H's graduation they offered sporting events off base Friday and Saturday night. If the Trainee signed up for them they were allowed to go and be off base later than the curfew. Of course they had to be back RIGHT after the games were over. Friday night was basketball and Saturday night was baseball. It was nice being able to spend a little more time with him.
Bring a suitcase of civilian clothes for your Airman. I got H a laptop for his Graduation gift. I planned on just putting it in his suitcase for him to find, but I couldn't wait and it was nice for him to be able to use it that weekend. I also made a scrapbook and wrote little notes and hid them in his suitcase for him to find. He loved the scrapbook. He actually said some of the other Airmen were jealous that their wives/girlfriends didn't do anything like that. He still has it with him at his dorm now in Tech School.
Take TONS of pictures! We were so caught up in the moment and we didn't get any pictures of us or him and his parents at graduation. To look back on it I really wish we would have.
Don't over plan anything, but also have things in mind. If you plan on going to six flags make sure you visit ITT (Information, Tickets & Travel) on Thursday or Friday because they are closed on Saturday. The Riverwalk in down town San Antonio is extremely nice. I loved it down there, but be careful there are people in the AF all over down there watching out for graduating Airmen breaking rules.
Sea World has a deal for AD (Active Duty) Military and up to 3 dependents (have to be a spouse or child) to get in for free, it's called Hero Salute. A lot of graduating Airmen go there. It has a few roller coasters and water rides. It was nice for H to be able to do something fun. If you visit that website you can register there, but I would wait until you go down for graduation. Your Airman can just go up to the ticket for Military and they will have you fill out a form and see his ID as well as the dependents that are getting in. You can only use Hero Salute one time per year.
There is absolutely NO drinking graduation weekend. They WILL be recycled if they get caught.
If your Airman's parents are going as well be sure to kindly let them know that you would like some alone time with your H/BF/FI before you get down there. Luckily H's parents thought about it before we did and gave us a couple hours together Friday afternoon at Sea World and then got us/me a room to myself on Saturday night (we stayed on base). So H came to the room for a couple hours Saturday afternoon and then they got released extra early for base liberty Sunday so he was able to come back to the room and sleep a few hours with me until Church.
Make sure your Airman has their flashlight every night! If they get caught walking without one back to the dorms they will be in BIG trouble.
A few pictures from BMT and Graduation:
FAQ - BMT
Here is the link to Lackland AFB BMT website.
How many graduations are there a month?
There is a graduation every weekend. 100s of new recruits show up every week to begin 'Zero week'.
Is every recruit in the same Squadron/flight?
Absolutely not! There are so many different squadrons and flights it's insane. In my husbands flight there were about 50 men.
What are squadrons and flights?
Flights are made of about 50 (sometimes more, sometimes less) men or women. There are multiple flights within a squadron. Flights in the same squadron are called brother or sister flights.
Will my H/BF/FI be able to have his cell phone?
No. If the MTI didn't take it at the air port it will be taken away at the first "shake down."
When will I get my first phone call?
Normally the first weekend they are there which is the end of zero week.
The address on the post card is different from the one he gave me over the phone, which one do I use?
I would use the one on the post card. No matter which one you use your trainee will get your letters.
How often should I expect a phone call and letters?
It completely depends on the MTI (Military Training Instructor). My H got to call at least every weekend and we normally got to talk for about an hour. I also got 15 letters and a card throughout the duration of BMT. Although, I know a woman you only got 3 calls that were 10 minutes each and about 4 letters.
Can I send my H/BF/FI cards, cookies or packages?
Cards, yes as long as they are in a WHITE envelope and please don't send the singing ones. Cookies and packages, NO! They are not allowed to receive anything other than letters and cards that are enclosed in white envelopes. Also, if you send a card make sure it doesn't have glitter on it. It's hell trying to get it off their uniform.
Can I send my H/BF/FI pictures & postcards?
Yes! Just make sure whatever you send him you wouldn't mind the MTI and other trainees seeing. If the MTI suspects anything more than a letter in the envelope they'll make the trainee open it in front of them to make sure it doesn't contain anything that is prohibited.
How often can I send letters?
EVERYDAY! Letters help your trainee get through BMT. I wrote my H a letter every single day and he still has all of them. He said mail time was one of his favorite parts of the day.
When should I book my plane ticket and hotel room?
Some women say ASAP, I say wait a little bit. It is always a possibility that your trainee can get washed back (recycled) for either an illness, discipline and weight amongst other things. Three to four weeks after your trainee arrives to Lackland they will send you a BMT graduation pamphlet. It has hotels in the area and things to do.
Since I'm a spouse can I get a room on base?
Technically yes you can, but doing so will be difficult. At Lackland you can only reserve a room when traveling Space A 3 days in advance. As a spouse of a BMT trainee you don't have much authority and Lackland is an extremely busy base. If you want to try it, it can benefit you in the long run. Problem is if they're booked then you have to find a hotel in that area last minute and that won't be cheap or easy.
What does recycled mean?
Any time during BMT and at graduation he can be recycled, put back all the way back to day one. Remember this while you're visiting your Airman at graduation.
Why is the first check that was deposited so small/large?
The military prorates your first paycheck. For example, if you receive your first paycheck 30 days after you arrive, you will receive the full rate of the monthly basic pay in that paycheck. If, however, you receive your first paycheck two weeks after arrival, it will contain half of your monthly base pay, and half of your monthly housing allowance for those with dependents. Taxes and other deductions such as deductions for non-issue items will be taken out. - Taken from airforce.com
My H/BF/FI left on X when will we get our check?
Generally, you'll get paid on the 15th of the first month. However if your information is entered into the Financial System later than the 7th, you should expect to get paid on the following 1st. - Taken from airforce.com
How much will my H/BF/FI get paid?
If the recruiter didn't already go over this with you then you can either contact the recruiter or look at this pay chart.
Can I visit my trainee during BMT?
NO! Graduation weekend is the ONLY time you can visit your Airman.
Can I get a job on base?
YES! Visit USAJobs.gov or AAFES
I've heard they take money out of the first check for uniforms, is this true?
They do take $300 out of the first check before it is even deposited but it is NOT for uniforms. All the uniforms they give you in BMT is issued for free. The $300 is for pens, pencils, notebooks, underwear and any other personal item your trainee might need during BMT. After all of that is bought they should still have a large amount to buy snacks and such when they get "patio breaks" or free time. The only thing H charged to our account was the graduation photos and DVD's. He actually still had money left over on the card after BMT.
Should my H/BF/FI take his wallet with him?
My H did, but I believe he had to put it in the same bag as his cell phone during the "shake down." He got to keep his debit/credit card which I would recommend taking.
- What does my H/BF/FI really need to take to bmt?
- His DL
- A copy of your (if a spouse) DL, SSC and Birth Certificate
- Credit/Debit card
- Official copy of Marriage Certificate
- Square toothbrush holder (yes it has to be square)
- Toothbrush/Toothpaste
- Hair brush
- Deodorant (Non-aresol can)
- A couple days worth of Civilian clothes (make it somewhat comfortable they will be wearing them during zero week)
- Eyeglasses (No Contacts)
What can't my H/BF/FI bring to BMT?
- Pornography (There was a kid in H's squadron that did and he never got it back)
- Tobacco of ANY kind
- Magazines/ books
- Cologne/perfume
- CD's/Mp3 players
- Computer
- Shoe Shine (You'll get it when you get there)
- Laundry Detergent (Your laundry gets done fore you)
- Blankets
What do I do if I need to contact my H/BF/FI in case of an emergency?
Firstly an emergency is only classified as:
- Death in immediate family
- Serious illness in immediate family (Life threatening)
- Birth announcement (Wife of male trainee only)
If any of these happen,contact your local Red Cross agency office. You MUST give your soldiers Social Security Number to the agent. If you have your Airman’s mailing address when the emergency occurs, please give that to the agent also. Your Airman may be allowed to return home to attend the funeral of an immediate family member, but this will delay their completion of training. The Red Cross does not issue the leave, they are only responsible for verifying the nature of the emergency; leave is granted only by your Airman’s Commander.
Will my H/BF/FI be able to have access to the internet?
NO! Not even on the free time. The only way for your trainee to contact you is through telephone.
What happens if my H/BF/FI gets sick or injured during BMT?
If it is a serious injury or sickness there is "sick call" every morning where they can report to. If it is serious enough it can delay your trainee's training which means his graduation date can be moved back.
What about church? Will they have free time on Sunday to go?
YES! It is highly encouraged. H isn't a huge church goer, but he went every Sunday during BMT and he said he loved it. It was also another thing that really helped him through. During graduation weekend families are permitted to attend as well and I highly recommend it. We went to the Christian service and it was so moving to see all the trainees come together, the whole room was in tears.
How often will my trainee receive their mail?
I don't know if it's different for every squadron, but I wouldn't think it is. H had "mail call" every Monday through Friday evening.
What do all these abbreviations/lingo mean?
AB: Airman Basic
PSC: Postal Service Center
SQ: Squadron
Town Pass:The Friday and Saturday of Graduation weekend unless your Airman gets Honor Flight, Honor Grad or Warhawk (for Physical Fitness)
Reveille: Start of the duty day
PCS: Permanent Change of Station
MTI: Military Training Instructor (TI for short)
Patio Breaks: The time they get to call home
CONUS: Continental United States (Stateside)
OCONUS: Outside Continental United States (overseas including Hawaii & Alaska)
Do we get FSA (Family Separation Allowance/Pay) during BMT?
YES! You get it anytime you are away from each other longer than 30 days. The rate is currently $250 a month. Remember though when you move with your H to have him cancel it. If you don't they will no longer give you that allowance, even when you are separated longer than 30 days.
My H/BF/FI says he is getting Thunderbolt/Warhawk, what does that mean?
Thunderbolt and Warhawk are a physical fitness standard. By reaching this it means they have gone above and beyond what is just required. How it was when H graduated if you got one of these you also got a town pass on Sunday instead of just base liberty.
What is LES and do we get it mailed home?
LES is Leave and Earnings Statement, basically a pay-stub. They aren't mailed home or even printed out. Everything is now done on the Internet using MyPay. Your Trainee with set up their MyPay account during BMT. MyPay also allows you to change your W-4 and see how many vacation days you have accumulated.
I haven't heared from my Trainee what do I do?
An Airman is required by regulation to get one init ial phone call to give you his/her address and to let you know that they are fine. Other phone calls during training are strictly up to the individual training instructor. If you have not received a call within 2 weeks, you can call (210) 6713024. Keep in mind that your Airman may have opted to call a friend or spouse. - Taken from Lackland's website
When will I be able to get my Mil Dependent ID?
Two or three weeks into BMT your H will send you an 1172 form. With that form you can go to the base with your DL, SSC and Marriage certificate and get your ID. I took every form of identification I had. I did not want to be told that I couldn't get my ID.
When can I sign up for TriCare (Healthcare insurance)
You are technically already signed up for TriCare Standard, but you can sign up for TriCare Prime (which I recommend). You can wait for your husband to do it for you when he gets to tech school or when you get your military ID you can go to the closest base to you and go into the TriCare office at the clinic/hospital.
When will my H/BF/FI get his phone back?
I guess they take the battery and let you keep the phone. Yea the TI's are like that. H said he got his battery back along with all the other stuff on Sunday night when he went back to the dorms, but they weren't supposed to use it or any other electronic item until they got to their Tech School.
How many graduations are there a month?
There is a graduation every weekend. 100s of new recruits show up every week to begin 'Zero week'.
Is every recruit in the same Squadron/flight?
Absolutely not! There are so many different squadrons and flights it's insane. In my husbands flight there were about 50 men.
What are squadrons and flights?
Flights are made of about 50 (sometimes more, sometimes less) men or women. There are multiple flights within a squadron. Flights in the same squadron are called brother or sister flights.
Will my H/BF/FI be able to have his cell phone?
No. If the MTI didn't take it at the air port it will be taken away at the first "shake down."
When will I get my first phone call?
Normally the first weekend they are there which is the end of zero week.
The address on the post card is different from the one he gave me over the phone, which one do I use?
I would use the one on the post card. No matter which one you use your trainee will get your letters.
How often should I expect a phone call and letters?
It completely depends on the MTI (Military Training Instructor). My H got to call at least every weekend and we normally got to talk for about an hour. I also got 15 letters and a card throughout the duration of BMT. Although, I know a woman you only got 3 calls that were 10 minutes each and about 4 letters.
Can I send my H/BF/FI cards, cookies or packages?
Cards, yes as long as they are in a WHITE envelope and please don't send the singing ones. Cookies and packages, NO! They are not allowed to receive anything other than letters and cards that are enclosed in white envelopes. Also, if you send a card make sure it doesn't have glitter on it. It's hell trying to get it off their uniform.
Can I send my H/BF/FI pictures & postcards?
Yes! Just make sure whatever you send him you wouldn't mind the MTI and other trainees seeing. If the MTI suspects anything more than a letter in the envelope they'll make the trainee open it in front of them to make sure it doesn't contain anything that is prohibited.
How often can I send letters?
EVERYDAY! Letters help your trainee get through BMT. I wrote my H a letter every single day and he still has all of them. He said mail time was one of his favorite parts of the day.
When should I book my plane ticket and hotel room?
Some women say ASAP, I say wait a little bit. It is always a possibility that your trainee can get washed back (recycled) for either an illness, discipline and weight amongst other things. Three to four weeks after your trainee arrives to Lackland they will send you a BMT graduation pamphlet. It has hotels in the area and things to do.
Since I'm a spouse can I get a room on base?
Technically yes you can, but doing so will be difficult. At Lackland you can only reserve a room when traveling Space A 3 days in advance. As a spouse of a BMT trainee you don't have much authority and Lackland is an extremely busy base. If you want to try it, it can benefit you in the long run. Problem is if they're booked then you have to find a hotel in that area last minute and that won't be cheap or easy.
What does recycled mean?
Any time during BMT and at graduation he can be recycled, put back all the way back to day one. Remember this while you're visiting your Airman at graduation.
Why is the first check that was deposited so small/large?
The military prorates your first paycheck. For example, if you receive your first paycheck 30 days after you arrive, you will receive the full rate of the monthly basic pay in that paycheck. If, however, you receive your first paycheck two weeks after arrival, it will contain half of your monthly base pay, and half of your monthly housing allowance for those with dependents. Taxes and other deductions such as deductions for non-issue items will be taken out. - Taken from airforce.com
My H/BF/FI left on X when will we get our check?
Generally, you'll get paid on the 15th of the first month. However if your information is entered into the Financial System later than the 7th, you should expect to get paid on the following 1st. - Taken from airforce.com
How much will my H/BF/FI get paid?
If the recruiter didn't already go over this with you then you can either contact the recruiter or look at this pay chart.
Can I visit my trainee during BMT?
NO! Graduation weekend is the ONLY time you can visit your Airman.
Can I get a job on base?
YES! Visit USAJobs.gov or AAFES
I've heard they take money out of the first check for uniforms, is this true?
They do take $300 out of the first check before it is even deposited but it is NOT for uniforms. All the uniforms they give you in BMT is issued for free. The $300 is for pens, pencils, notebooks, underwear and any other personal item your trainee might need during BMT. After all of that is bought they should still have a large amount to buy snacks and such when they get "patio breaks" or free time. The only thing H charged to our account was the graduation photos and DVD's. He actually still had money left over on the card after BMT.
Should my H/BF/FI take his wallet with him?
My H did, but I believe he had to put it in the same bag as his cell phone during the "shake down." He got to keep his debit/credit card which I would recommend taking.
- What does my H/BF/FI really need to take to bmt?
- His DL
- A copy of your (if a spouse) DL, SSC and Birth Certificate
- Credit/Debit card
- Official copy of Marriage Certificate
- Square toothbrush holder (yes it has to be square)
- Toothbrush/Toothpaste
- Hair brush
- Deodorant (Non-aresol can)
- A couple days worth of Civilian clothes (make it somewhat comfortable they will be wearing them during zero week)
- Eyeglasses (No Contacts)
What can't my H/BF/FI bring to BMT?
- Pornography (There was a kid in H's squadron that did and he never got it back)
- Tobacco of ANY kind
- Magazines/ books
- Cologne/perfume
- CD's/Mp3 players
- Computer
- Shoe Shine (You'll get it when you get there)
- Laundry Detergent (Your laundry gets done fore you)
- Blankets
What do I do if I need to contact my H/BF/FI in case of an emergency?
Firstly an emergency is only classified as:
- Death in immediate family
- Serious illness in immediate family (Life threatening)
- Birth announcement (Wife of male trainee only)
If any of these happen,contact your local Red Cross agency office. You MUST give your soldiers Social Security Number to the agent. If you have your Airman’s mailing address when the emergency occurs, please give that to the agent also. Your Airman may be allowed to return home to attend the funeral of an immediate family member, but this will delay their completion of training. The Red Cross does not issue the leave, they are only responsible for verifying the nature of the emergency; leave is granted only by your Airman’s Commander.
Will my H/BF/FI be able to have access to the internet?
NO! Not even on the free time. The only way for your trainee to contact you is through telephone.
What happens if my H/BF/FI gets sick or injured during BMT?
If it is a serious injury or sickness there is "sick call" every morning where they can report to. If it is serious enough it can delay your trainee's training which means his graduation date can be moved back.
What about church? Will they have free time on Sunday to go?
YES! It is highly encouraged. H isn't a huge church goer, but he went every Sunday during BMT and he said he loved it. It was also another thing that really helped him through. During graduation weekend families are permitted to attend as well and I highly recommend it. We went to the Christian service and it was so moving to see all the trainees come together, the whole room was in tears.
How often will my trainee receive their mail?
I don't know if it's different for every squadron, but I wouldn't think it is. H had "mail call" every Monday through Friday evening.
What do all these abbreviations/lingo mean?
AB: Airman Basic
PSC: Postal Service Center
SQ: Squadron
Town Pass:The Friday and Saturday of Graduation weekend unless your Airman gets Honor Flight, Honor Grad or Warhawk (for Physical Fitness)
Reveille: Start of the duty day
PCS: Permanent Change of Station
MTI: Military Training Instructor (TI for short)
Patio Breaks: The time they get to call home
CONUS: Continental United States (Stateside)
OCONUS: Outside Continental United States (overseas including Hawaii & Alaska)
Do we get FSA (Family Separation Allowance/Pay) during BMT?
YES! You get it anytime you are away from each other longer than 30 days. The rate is currently $250 a month. Remember though when you move with your H to have him cancel it. If you don't they will no longer give you that allowance, even when you are separated longer than 30 days.
My H/BF/FI says he is getting Thunderbolt/Warhawk, what does that mean?
Thunderbolt and Warhawk are a physical fitness standard. By reaching this it means they have gone above and beyond what is just required. How it was when H graduated if you got one of these you also got a town pass on Sunday instead of just base liberty.
What is LES and do we get it mailed home?
LES is Leave and Earnings Statement, basically a pay-stub. They aren't mailed home or even printed out. Everything is now done on the Internet using MyPay. Your Trainee with set up their MyPay account during BMT. MyPay also allows you to change your W-4 and see how many vacation days you have accumulated.
I haven't heared from my Trainee what do I do?
An Airman is required by regulation to get one init ial phone call to give you his/her address and to let you know that they are fine. Other phone calls during training are strictly up to the individual training instructor. If you have not received a call within 2 weeks, you can call (210) 6713024. Keep in mind that your Airman may have opted to call a friend or spouse. - Taken from Lackland's website
When will I be able to get my Mil Dependent ID?
Two or three weeks into BMT your H will send you an 1172 form. With that form you can go to the base with your DL, SSC and Marriage certificate and get your ID. I took every form of identification I had. I did not want to be told that I couldn't get my ID.
When can I sign up for TriCare (Healthcare insurance)
You are technically already signed up for TriCare Standard, but you can sign up for TriCare Prime (which I recommend). You can wait for your husband to do it for you when he gets to tech school or when you get your military ID you can go to the closest base to you and go into the TriCare office at the clinic/hospital.
When will my H/BF/FI get his phone back?
I guess they take the battery and let you keep the phone. Yea the TI's are like that. H said he got his battery back along with all the other stuff on Sunday night when he went back to the dorms, but they weren't supposed to use it or any other electronic item until they got to their Tech School.
When I got my first phone call
H left that Tuesday and I got a call on Saturday afternoon. He sounded horrible. I read from some of the other wives to expect this so it wasn't a total shock. He had to read off of a card and couldn't say more than that. It was pretty basic.. "I have arrived safely at Lackland AFB, please get a pen and piece of paper to copy down my address..."
It is extremely hard to hear them so listen carefully. I would tell you to put a notepad and pen in your purse and keep it on you at all times. I received the postcard on Monday and the address was different. I was freaking out. I now know this is normal. H's MTI gave the first 5 trainees the wrong address and H was the first to use the phone. He still did get my letters, just a little late.
It is extremely hard to hear them so listen carefully. I would tell you to put a notepad and pen in your purse and keep it on you at all times. I received the postcard on Monday and the address was different. I was freaking out. I now know this is normal. H's MTI gave the first 5 trainees the wrong address and H was the first to use the phone. He still did get my letters, just a little late.
The day he left
H left on February 10, 2009 and I can honestly say it was one of the hardest days I've gone through. I remember the morning of that day we went to one of the recruiters offices so H and some of the other guys that were leaving that day could swear in and sign the last little bit of paperwork. Of course H's recruiter was the last one there and we were waiting in that office for probably an hour and a half. After we left that office H said goodbye to his parents and we went back to the apartment to get his bag. We had about an hour until we had to leave to the airport and I probably cried the whole time. I dropped him off and that was it.. he was gone. He had his phone all the way up until he landed in San Antonio and met with the MTI.
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